Menerima anugerah tokoh Nilam pada Mei 2010
Kalau nak bercerita tentang peranan isteri dalam Islam, kalau nak membongkar hadis-hadis dan nas Al Quran tentang peri pentingnya hukum taatkan suami, sampai ke Subuh pun tak selesai. Begitu banyak laman web yang membincangkan isu ini yang dikaitkan dengan kebahagiaan rumahtangga.
Di sini saya ingin memaparkan satu berita yang menarik. dipetik dari blog ini , tentang pengalaman tokoh guru Terengganu 2010, Encik Alias Ismail yang melakukan aktiviti membaca dan seks pada setiap malam.
Namun begitu, watak, kehendak suami berbeza, jadi faham memahamilah antara suami isteri… Suami menaungi keluarga sebagai pemimpin, manakala isteri hendaklah sentiasa berusaha menjadi dara akal, dara roh dan dara fizikalnya. Jika keperluan ini selesai, jika si suami seorang pendidik dia akan menjadi pendidik yang hebat untuk anak muridnya, jika seorang ayah dia menjadi ayah yang hebat untuk anak-anaknya, bagaimana jika seorang Menteri, seorang pejuang Islam? Inilah rahsia Islam dulu berkembang pesat dan menguasai 2/3 dunia. Jika suami mampu berpoligami lagi hebatlah perjuangannya bila semua isteri-isterinya berperanan bagai bidadari. Saya yakin isteri Encik Alias ini mampu menjadi bidadari buat suaminya kerana Allah.————————————————————–
Cikgu Alias dan isteri
Aktif dalam aktiviti seks dan rajin membaca setiap malam merupakan rahsia dan petua sebenar untuk sentiasa sihat dan sentiasa bertenaga sepanjang hari, mengikut Alias Ismail, 41 tahun, pemenang anugerah Tokoh Nilam, iaitu anugerah tahunan tertinggi kepada golongan pendidik di negeri terengganu yang mencapai pencapaian cemerlang dalam bidang pendidikan. Beliau menerima anugerah berkenaan daripada Mentri Besar Datuk Ahmad Said di Dewan Al-Muktafi Billah Shah, Universiti Darul Iman Malaysia, Terengganu.
Bapa kepada 4 orang anak ini mengajar Bahasa Malaysia di SMK Menerong in Hulu Terengganu. Sepanjang perkahwinan selama 25 tahun, beliau bersama isterinya sudah mempunyai koleksi sebanyak 1,000 buku termasuk novel-novel romantik.
Artikel asal dari Star Online 31 Mei 2010 : ” Kuala terengganu: Reading and having sex nightly. That, says Tokoh Nilam award winner Alias Ismail, is the secret to his seemingly boundless energy during the day.
Even his colleagues have been left wondering how the teacher manages to remain energetic enough to conduct additional co-curriculum activities until the late evening. “They always ask me whether I consume jamu (traditional herbs) to keep me going,” said the 41-year-old yesterday. “Often, they are astonished when I tell them that it’s actually an active sex life and reading that makes one healthy, wealthy and wise.” Alias is the inaugural recipient of the state-initiated award to honour a teacher who has managed outstanding achievements in education.
He received the award from Mentri Besar Datuk Ahmad Said at Dewan Al-Muktafi Billah Shah, Universiti Darul Iman Malaysia here. Alias also received a sponsored package to perform the haj.
The father of four said he made it a point to have sex daily before he and his wife retired for the night and felt it made him more agile and active. “A good and legitimate sexual relationship is a kind of energy booster for me and my wife that has not only kept our marriage ties cordial but also made our bodies and brains functioning remarkably,” he added.
Alias, who teaches Bahasa Malaysia at SMK Menerong in Hulu Terengganu, said he was able to concentrate on his work after a “blissful” night with his wife. He added that it was also a nightly ritual for both him and his wife, Rosmahwati Abdullah, 41, to read a few pages of a book and have an intellectual conversation before moving on to other “activities”.
The couple have been doing this since their marriage 25 years ago and they have a collection of 1,000 books, including romance novels. He has also shared his secret with his eldest son, now 23. “
“I told my son to always adhere to religious and moral values once he is married but should always keep their union exciting by maintaining the ‘reading and sex’ concept,” he quipped.
Alias, who was shortlisted from 41 teachers, has previously received dozens of state awards and accolades.
He has also written books for UPSR and SPM and contributes articles to magazines like Pelita Bahasa, Dewan Sastera, Dewan Masyarakat, Dewan Budaya and Dewan Siswa.
Among the popular books that he has written are Bukan Duniaku and Azfa Hanani for secondary students.
He also holds the current state record for having read 2,100 books.
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